While some men might be experimenting with their sexuality and desires, Max explains that the glory hole encounters between men where one might not identify as gay could be more to do with the ease at which men can get off. These men will walk in and walk away without knowing who the person is on the other side but understand that it is another man. I also spoke to another man who has a glory hole (a sheet in his apartment that has a hole in it which sexual acts can be anonymously carried out through) and puts out ads to have encounters with straight men only. This was later reconfirmed by a text message which said, “You give head as good as my wife does.” Towards the end of the encounter, his phone rang displaying a photo of the man he was hooking up with and his wife on their wedding day.
He also informed me of a recent encounter he had with a straight man at a sex on premises club who he thought was gay. Probably any toilet you go to is a beat,” he said. “It’s pretty easy to find if you know where you are looking. Max* informed me that finding straight men to hook up with is not that hard. It is not necessarily about sexual attraction to a gender, but sexual pleasure.įinding a gay man who has experience in this was not difficult at all. After investigating the issue and speaking to some of the men involved, I was surprised to find out that as well as some of these men being in the closet, there is also a population of guys out there who are hooking up with other guys just for the pure ease at which a hook up can occur. I’d heard of the term “men who have sex with men” (msm), but was confused as to why these straight men/gay men hook-ups were occurring so commonly, and what it was all about.Īre these men secretly gay and in hiding?Īs it turns out, not all of them are. It’s a subject that has always fascinated me because I have many gay friends who bed these so-called straight (and often married) men with excitement, enthusiasm and frequency. When using a search engine such as Google, Bing or Yahoo check the safe search settings where you can exclude adult content sites from your search results Īsk your internet service provider if they offer additional filters īe responsible, know what your children are doing online.IF A man is sexual with another man, is he gay? You can kiss a girl and like it and be straight, but man on man sex is quickly put in the category of homosexuality. Use family filters of your operating systems and/or browsers Other steps you can take to protect your children are: More information about the RTA Label and compatible services can be found here. Parental tools that are compatible with the RTA label will block access to this site. We use the "Restricted To Adults" (RTA) website label to better enable parental filtering.
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